Stop the cycle. Start the connection.
Move past the "walking on eggshells" and build a relationship that feels like home.
It doesn't have to be this hard.
You love each other, but lately, it feels like you're speaking two different languages. Maybe the smallest comment turns into a three-hour argument, or maybe the silence has become so loud that you’ve forgotten how to be friends.
The "Same Old" Fight: You keep having the same argument over and over with no resolution.
The Roommate Syndrome: You’re great at managing the house and the kids, but you feel like you've lost the "spark" that brought you together.
The Emotional Wall: One shuts down while the other tries harder, leaving you both feeling exhausted and alone..
The Pre-Marital Panic: You’re excited to get married, but you want to make sure you have the tools to handle the "real life" stuff before it starts.
Tools, not just talk.
I don't just sit back and watch you argue. My approach is active and collaborative. We will look at the patterns keeping you stuck and replace them with practical tools for communication and repair.
In our sessions, we focus on:
Identifying the "Cycle": Understanding the triggers that lead to conflict so you can stop them before they start.
Safe Communication: Learning how to express your needs without the other person feeling attacked or defensive.
Rebuilding Trust: Navigating the aftermath of betrayal or years of small letdowns.
The Language of the Heart: For my bilingual couples, we explore how your cultural backgrounds and family histories shape how you give and receive love.
Your relationship is your most important investment.
Staying stuck in conflict doesn't just hurt your marriage—it affects your health, your work, and your kids. Taking an hour a week to focus on your "us" isn't a sign of weakness; it’s the bravest thing you can do for your future.
3 Steps to a stronger connection
The Consultation: A 15-minute chat for both of you. My goal isn't to find out who is 'wrong,' but to see how we can fix the pattern together.
The Assessment: We’ll spend the first few sessions untangling your story and identifying exactly where you’re getting stuck.
The Repair: We meet regularly to master tools so you can move from 'surviving' to actually enjoying each other again.
Stuck in the same old argument?
I’ve created the Couples Repair Roadmap to help you stop the cycle of silence and walking on eggshells. This isn't just theory—it's a practical guide to help you find your way back to each other tonight. Inside, you’ll find:
The "Infinite Loop" Identifier: Finally name the cycle that’s keeping you stuck.
The Soft Start-Up: A simple script to talk about hard things without fighting.
The "Hesitant Partner" Bridge: How to talk about therapy without it feeling like an attack
Don't wait for a crisis to find your footing.
Virtual throughout Texas | In-person in The Woodlands